(OSV News) — Jessica Cox — author, speaker, wife, pilot, martial arts black belt — has tremendous balance.
Whether she’s at home, on stage, in the sky or heading to the mat, she’s centered, physically and spiritually.
She admits that slacklining — a demanding activity that entails walking erect on a loosely tensioned synthetic rope — is “just exhausting.” But she quickly notes, “The moment you step off and reach the earth again, you feel so incredibly grounded.”
Cox understands the need for balance quite well, and it’s not simply due to her demanding schedule, or even her degree in psychology.
It’s because she was born without arms.
A devout Catholic, Cox has from her earliest years experienced life as a step-by-step journey with the Lord Jesus. And as she continues that journey, Cox has a message for the world: “Strengthen your faith.”
“Faith will prevail,” she told OSV News. “Faith will conquer it all.”
A question of faith, an answer of love
That faith was instilled in her at an early age, thanks to her “very Catholic” Filipino mother and her Southern Baptist father, she said.
“They had this interfaith relationship that gave me the foundation,” said Cox, a native of Sierra Vista, Arizona.
The couple leaned on their belief in Jesus Christ when, in 1983, “to the surprise of everyone, I came out into the world without both arms,” she said.
“It was stunning to everyone, even in the operating room during a normal C-section,” she said. “Nothing was awry; it was just a procedure. And yet I came out and stunned the world, because the sonograms never showed any indication of a difference in my development, until the day of my birth.”
Cox admits that her parents were bewildered as to why their daughter had been born with what’s technically known as a limb reduction defect, which, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, impacts 1 every 1,852 babies born in the U.S.
“I think my mom had a very difficult time, and even struggled in her own faith as to why God would allow this to happen,” she said. “She didn’t know what was in store for me, and they really questioned their faith at the time. It rocked their world.”
Even as she began to navigate the world — with her strong, agile feet doing the work of the hands and arms that had never developed, and determined not to use prosthetics — Cox recalled that she herself battled “a significant amount of anger” as she grew up realizing “it was only me who was different,” since “my parents had arms, my best friend in school had arms, my brother and sister had arms.”
“I commend my parents for dealing with that, because I was just finding myself in the world and understanding things,” she said.
And, Cox said, “because I had that foundation of faith, I then turned to God, saying, ‘Why am I different?’”
At age five, she even took her request to the parish priest, asking “for him to pray for me to have arms.”
Grasping the rosary
Cox said she was “given all the support” needed from her parents — and through the family’s faith and her own, she experienced a transformation.
“I started praying the rosary at the age of six,” Cox said. “My mom and my aunt had a traveling prayer group that went from house to house. And without any prompting, I joined in. I grabbed hold of the rosary between my toes and started to follow along.”
Cox said the rosary, which she described as “this beautiful prayer,” was “part of my development.”
As she continued in her Catholic upbringing, receiving her sacraments, “I found myself recognizing this faith was something so tremendous — such a blessing and more, even beyond a blessing.”
By age 14, she’d earned her first black belt in the International Taekwon-Do Federation, and continued her martial arts — becoming the first armless person to score a black belt in the ATA Martial Arts club (formerly the American Taekwondo Association) while studying psychology at the University of Arizona.
Still, there were moments of doubt and anguish — although the light of faith increasingly pierced even those clouds.
Cox recounted a difficult “teen moment where I felt like I was the only one,” hiding behind a rack of clothing at a big-box store to avoid the stares of fellow shoppers. A week later, while pumping gas at the same store, she was approached by a weeping man, who said the sight of Cox had given hope to him and his daughter, a fellow teen who had just lost several fingers in an accident.
For Cox, the encounter was a prayer fulfilled.
“Maybe God didn’t answer me immediately when I was at Sam’s Club, cowering behind a rack of clothing and asking him, ‘Why can’t you make me normal?’” she said. “But a week later, he was saying, ‘This is why.’”
Reaching new heights, setting a record
Another horizon opened up for Cox just two months after graduation, following a talk she gave at the local Rotary Club.
“A pilot came up to me and said, ‘How would you like to fly?’” Cox said. “My dad was with me at the time, and he has always been an aviation enthusiast. He jumped in for me and said, ‘She would love to.’ And at that point, I guess I was committed by association with my dad, and then went forward.”
Aviation “aligned really well” as Cox — who as a child had found commercial flights “unsettling” — began developing her public speaking career after graduation.
“It was like, ‘Well, I need to go out there and speak, and I need to be not just telling people to be fearless, but living it out in my own life,’” she said.
She flew as a passenger in a single-engine plane shortly thereafter, and “could see myself flying this plane by myself and becoming a pilot.”
Cox did just that, although it took, as her official bio states, “three states, four airplanes, three flight instructors, and three years to find the right aircraft,” which proved to be a 1946 415-C model Ercoupe.
In 2008, she received her light sport pilot certificate, and in 2011 notched the Guinness World Record for being the first person certified to fly an airplane with only their feet.
Other accomplishments have followed, including two goodwill ambassadorships — one for Humanity and Inclusion, which supports millions of persons with disabilities in 60 countries amid conflict, natural disasters, poverty and exclusion; and a second for the Flight School Association of North America. Cox was awarded an honorary doctorate in 2023.
She’s written a book — “Disarm Your Limits,” published in 2015 — and has been the subject of an award-winning documentary, “Right Footed,” which is also the name of the nonprofit foundation she created.
Cox even found time to marry, tying the knot with her husband in 2012.
She’s traveled to 28 countries, and she now plans to build “The Impossible Airplane,” a four-seat RV-10 with custom controls that can notch 200 miles per hour.
Being in flight is a place of “absolute trust” and “surrender to God,” where “faith shines through,” said Cox.
“When I’m behind the controls of an airplane all by myself, thousands of feet in the sky — if I don’t stay focused, I could literally lose control of the airplane and it could mean the end of my life,” said Cox. “All that closeness to God is so spiritual. It’s absolute trust in God that it’s going to be OK, and that I’m going to make it through this.”
Gina Christian is a multimedia reporter for OSV News. Follow her on X @GinaJesseReina.
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